We have a real problem on our hands here!
We’ve got millions of sexless young mothers out there who are dealing with TOTs:
This disconnection from your sexual energy contributes to your feeling like you’ve lost your identity and self-confidence. And this spills into every aspect of your life from your physical health and how you relate to your body to how you communicate with your partner, how you perform your job or daily tasks and of course how you mother your children.
You might have felt like you couldn’t talk about any of this stuff with anyone else in the past. You might not have had supportive partners in the past who encouraged you to express yourself freely. You might have residual anger, resentment or trauma.
But you’re interested in changing that and creating something different. Because guess what -- it doesn’t have to be the way that it’s been. You have all the ability, power and choice within you to be orgasmically in love with your life!
I’m here to establish a new paradigm -- that the Orgasmic Mama is a better mama. Because you’re a better you through this process and this experience that I’ve put together for you.
Orgasmic Mama gives you access to videos, audio, tools, resources and exercises that will connect you with your turned on, orgasmic self in less than 90 days.
But you’ll want to stay in the community well past those 90 days, I promise. Because new content will be added monthly, along with live virtual coaching sessions for the community going over any questions or topics from that month.
I don’t just mean having it, but basically anything having to do with it. Talking about it. References in movies, music or media.
So how the hell does one go from a place of basically swearing off sex to now creating something called Orgasmic Mama, and encouraging mamas everywhere to be in touch with their sexuality and sensual expression?
Great fucking question.
It took years of leaning into my own personal growth and development - books, coaches, meditations, exercise, nutrition. I reached a certain level of mastery, but I knew I was capped. I wasn’t going to progress any further, and fully own my power and greatness if I didn’t address the elephant in the room.
The fact of the matter was that I had the maturity of a teenager around sex.
Interesting thing about sex - the more you have it, doesn’t mean you’re maturing around it, or relating to it in a healthy and empowering way, or even getting anything out of it. Pair that immature mindset with the emotional tools, paradigms and coping skills collected over the years from a series of sexually suppressive sources (trying saying that 5 times fast!), I was shut down and dried up (in more ways than one).
What was showing up as a result? Dissatisfaction in the bedroom (at no fault to my partner), self-consciousness around my physical body and sexual experience, painful and taxing period and chronic, raging UTI’s. I could ignore my sexual healing as long as I wanted, but the results in my body, life and relationships would not change until I mustered up the courage to explore it.
When I started seeing my sexual health and relationship as just as significant as my mental, physical and emotional well-being, things started to connect. The dots began to connect and I saw that the root for a lot of my past depression, stress and trauma were linked with my whole approach to sexual energy and the space I held for it in my life.
And so fast forward, I sit here confident as ever that our sexuality (not having sex...how you look at the full picture) is linked with every aspect of who we are and what we do. Especially as mothers. This is why I’m so passionate about sharing this message with mothers in particular.
I’ve seen and felt the effects of a stifled sexuality and what that can mean:
- More stress and anxiety on top of the generous helping that motherhood alone serves up
- Distance and resentment with your partner
- Pain or dis-ease in the physical body
- Shorter fuse and anger when it comes to the kiddos
- Feeling like there’s no time for yourself
- Low self-worth and confidence
Orgasmic Mama can help create similar results in your life, in just 90 days!
"My relationship with sex is completely different than what it was. Before: to even think about or talk about - I was uncomfortable, but now it’s the most natural thing in the world to me. The fact that I realized my gifts...and I realize that I’m worthy of this -- the money, the time, the resources invested in me.”
Jess, mama to 1 beautiful boy
"I feel that by understanding who I am, what I need, and who I want to be, I can work through issues that arise. Also, by 'keeping my cup filled', I am not as easily affected by challenges I once was. Recognizing physical touch as my primary love language and understanding that when I am fulfilled in that area sexually, I feel more at peace in my life and the rest flows naturally.”
Thea, mama to 2 beautiful girls
What's included in your membership:
√ Unlimited access to all Orgasmic Mama videos, audios and worksheets
√ New content added monthly
√ Monthly live coaching call with me!
√ Interviews with expert guests
I'm Sarah Bivens: coach, podcaster and orgasmic mama.
I help mothers prepare for and experience motherhood in a joyful, empowered and orgasmic way.
My Personal Mission Statement that fuels me to do the work I do, is: To be the Badass Goddess in exquisite execution of balanced lifestyle; acknowledging and honoring my divine feminine source and owning my power to co-create, while intimately connecting to others through love, service, nurturing and healing; exploring and being what’s possible, attuned to the abundance of the Universe and answering its call with a joyful and faithful heart that generates orgasmic and sustainable health and wealth.
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